So I shared this photo for the first day of SUMMER because it reminded me of the lake I used to go to as a kid with my mom, dad, & brother, but my sister was younger & didn't have that experience. So her memory of the lake was our ex step dad. He was a good guy, but an alcoholic. For many years I was somehow granted the duty of protecting my brother and sister from his craziness. This day was the day I confirmed to Dennis & placed his mind at ease, that I forgave him for his drinking, his blackouts, his abuse towards our mom (that was unwillingly allowed) . It's not pretty. But it's real. He was drunk even then. Shortly after he passed away because his organs shut down. That's what's real to me. He knew I forgave him and he finally forgave himself. Sadly it was too late. I forgive, but I can't forget. Love you Dennis, RIP. See you when I see you. *If you or someone you love is an alcoholic please know there is help.
